What would you do if you don’t have any payments to make?

The answer to this question, at least for me, is anything I can do with no financial stress in my mind.
Reaching almost halfway through life assuming everything remains normal, what I learnt is that freedom is the best thing that we can achieve in this world.
Among many different kinds of freedoms, financial freedom remains number one in the modern world.
Don’t get me wrong I’m not free from payments yet, I’m also struggling to make them, but I can smell and feel the sense of what if I don’t have to make any payments.
This is just my answer but yours might be different, but I’m pretty sure that at least nobody hates freedom irrespective of its nature.
Humans are designed to love freedom from evolution.
That may be the reason that Immanuel Kant, a German philosopher and thinker, said “Every rational being has both an innate right to have and preserve freedom.”

No payments to make means more choices

I want to do whatever it takes to create that freedom because I know now that it unlocks so many potentials in our lives.
Not having mental restrictions, boundaries, and stress presents many choices.
And the fact is more choices obviously give more freedom.
More freedom gives peace in our mind.
Ultimately peace leads to joy.
And joy is nothing but the sense of fulfillment. Some of us might have somehow experienced it in some of its forms, fulfillment is what we all are striving for.

Author Deepak Chopra, MD, in his book “The Ultimate Happiness Prescription” says, “When we are happy and fulfilled, we make choices that naturally lead to success in various aspects of life.”

Restrictions, boundaries, and stress clutter the human mind.
No need to make payments is a big decluttering state, by which we will create more space in our mind.
When our mind isn’t preoccupied by limitations and financial stress, we can focus on things that we always put on hold, they were not important before but they become more important now.
Our priorities dramatically shift with intention.
You may ask what kind of priorities.
Like, we become more present with our kids, parents, and spouse at home.
We become more focussed even at our own work, projects, and any tasks that we really care about.
Words naturally come out of our mouth “I don’t have any obligations, this is just me, there would be no severe consequences of not finishing it as per specified date and time.”
Guess what happens, we enter into our creative zone.

Here is one example of what I experienced two years ago.
John Cleese, author of “Creativity”, explains about the power of the unconscious to solve creative problems from a creative zone.
Two years ago I was working on a research project at night, and couldn’t find a way to proceed. I gave up and went to bed.
Surprisingly, I discovered a beautiful way to proceed early in the morning.
I thought about what happened, I realized that my unconscious mind was working without me being consciously aware of it.
This kind of creativity pattern works at its maximum level when our mind is free from tension and stress.
Having the freedom to do anything creative that we like is the best success we ever achieve in this world.
But very few of us have this luxury.

No debts means deep goodnight sleep

We all have to make payments because we have debt in the name of mortgage, credit card, car payment, student loan, insurance, and personal loan, few major of them.
These are essential to survive but also the major life traps that we have in modern life.
Debt steals freedom from our paycheck.
Debt robs us our future freedom by demanding that we pay for the past.
Debt is our freedom killer.
Accept it or not, debt is a chief thief of our freedom.
Debt binds us in a certain situation, place, obligation, and we become a hamster on a wheel.

Stacy Johnson, author of “Life or Debt” says, “Destroying debt does not mean radically changing your lifestyle or giving up the things you love. It does mean taking charge of your financial freedom and making sure the money you earn goes to the things you care about.”

The harsh reality is that we will never win the time as long as we have to make payments for the decision we made in the past compounded with recurring interest.
Just today only, I had to skip my morning yoga because I had to attend an early meeting in my office.
I already compromised my health, my creativity, and my happiness for today.
These all seem intangible at the moment because I’m relatively young now, I can skip today, but they all become quite tangible pretty soon in my future life.
The hard truth is everything adds up in life, one piece at a time, that may be health, relationship, finance, and happiness.
It’s not just today or yesterday, they all will make a wheel and we will lose the battle over all of them.

As long as we continue justifying, rationalizing, and normalizing our life with these kinds of compromises we will always be suffering.
And suffering sucks.
In my view, normal is suffering.
Normal is living paycheck to paycheck all life.
Normal is working our whole life like a hamster on a wheel suppressing our inner desire.
Compromise is the worst form of suffering and it absorbs all of our mental energy, that’s what I experienced by skipping my morning yoga.
Skipping important tasks like building health and relationships is a compromise and gets us nowhere but in the zone of frustration and dissatisfaction.
Ask yourself, if you don’t have to make payments, do you skip the important tasks like yoga in the morning and your daughter’s parent teacher interaction?

No payments to make means more hope

Human psychology is amazing.
Every small win motivates us to keep going.
I started to believe in this process because I was getting this nice pat on my back called success.
As humans, this nice pat on the back is critical for changing our behaviours, habits, and to stay motivated.
When we do something difficult or for the first time, we need to see progress otherwise we’ll quit.

I always remember Florence Nightingale’s statement, “I attribute my success to this: I never gave or took any excuse.”

My personal experience, if we give or take any excuse in life, then there remains no more hope for progress.

We work on new things because there is hope that something will happen sometime in the near future.
Hope is psychology and it works.

Dave Ramsey, a finance expert and author of “The Total Money Makeover” says “winning with money is 80% behavior and 20% head knowledge.”
In my experience, winning in anything is 90 percent behaviour and habit, and only 10 percent knowledge.
I realized this only after completing multiple marathons in my life just by following daily habits.
I gained more hope for freedom once I reached the stage that there are no more car payments to make.

In my view, we notice at least four things when we achieve some level of freedom.
It could be something small like no more overtime work because we want to run in the evening or something bigger like no more car payments to make or something even more bigger like no more mortgage payments to make.

We bring attraction. We become attracted to new people, new projects, and new places which are more aligned with our heart and mind. This happens because we have time to associate with them.
We develop authority. We gradually develop authority because we learn a lot from our keen interests which we habituate from freedom. For example, I can teach beginner runners the different aspects of running like physical, psychological, physiological, dietary, and rest.
We develop attachment. Now I have many runner friends with whom I’ve built a community.
We take action immediately. Immediate action becomes our next friend. No waiting and no procastination because the key task remains very close to our heart. We decide quickly because we become serious about it.

No payments to make means more generosity

Each one of us has some kind of knowledge and expertise for what we do and what is important, no question about it, we only need consistent habits and generosity to show up.
Generosity is not a single word, it has physiological, emotional, and psychological consequences.
At the end of the day, if we have freedom to operate, we become more generous on anything that we want to achieve.

Stephen G Post, PhD, author of “Why Good Things Happen to Good People” found that when we become generous in anything, our brain produces happiness chemicals like dopamine and oxytocin.
Scientifically, it’s always better to give, to show up, to contribute than to receive.

Dr. Post’s research elaborates the astonishing connection between generosity and health.
It is so convincing that it will inspire all of us to change our lives in ways big or small.
A longer, healthier, and happier life awaits generosity and it can change each one of us in this world.

Generous attitude is inspiring and contagious.
It is the path of self-healing and growth for something larger than ourselves.
Research indicates that generosity lowers stress level because it is the main cause for chronic diseases and heart attacks.
Research also indicates that people who do volunteering at least four hours per week are less likely to develop blood pressure than those who don’t volunteer.
Volunteering is a generosity.

Conclusion

My daughter is in tenth grade and nowadays she does a lot of volunteering when time permits her and says “Generosity is human to human connection.”
I completely agree with her that humans are innately complex creatures yet always strive for simplicity.
Our challenge as humans is finding, understanding, and explaining our complexity in its most simplistic form.
Probably, that’s the reason Leonardo da Vinci said, “Simplicity is the ultimate sophistication.”
Generosity is one way to make things simple in life.

I recently repaired my car in an auto repair shop.
I left the car all day in the repair shop, headed for the office to pick it up in the evening.
When I reached to pick up my car in the evening they returned my keys with a branded key chain encoded with their social media icon.
Excellent marketing, isn’t it?
But what I saw is a big generosity in marketing but I’am pretty confident it works because they are being very generous to their customers.
In my opinion, generosity is being entrepreneurial.
I love TedTalk from Adam Baker, his inspiring story: Sell your crap. Pay your debt. Do what you love.
I recommend to watch.

I don’t know who said it but it’s worth repeating here, “True happiness is a bank account with zero balance, not because you have no money, but because you have no bills to pay.”

Yam Timsina, PhD, writes primarily on health basics, scientific progress, social upliftment, and value creation.

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Do you ever assign any task to yourself from you in the world of FAANG?

Sometimes I look back to my life and what I see is very interesting but not quite satisfying.
All the time I was working on many tasks because somebody assigned me to perform.
Honestly, I’m still working on this model because I’m an employee. No question about it.
All the way back from middle school to now, I’m doing tasks because someone somewhere assigned me to do and I did them wholeheartedly.
So the question came to my mind is what did I assign myself to perform?
To be honest, a lot of time, nothing.
I didn’t assign anything to me.

Self-assigned tasks develop superpower

I wonder why our life is designed this way? Does anybody not like to assign anything for themselves?
Have you ever assigned any task to yourself and finished?
In my whole past life, somebody gave me a task, gave details on what and how to do, gave some scopes, responsibilities, directions, possible scenarios of outcomes if done successfully and, I obeyed them and finished all the time based on my capacity.

Now in this phase of my life, of course, I do what others told me to do as a part of my life for many reasons, but I also want to do something which is purely assigned to me by myself.

For example, this morning, I did fifteen minutes of breathing practice.
What I did was I inhaled oxygen from my nose and exhaled from my mouth.
Nobody told me to do it but I did.
I felt relaxed and felt really good throughout the day.
Remember the research proven facts of breathing exercise.
-Healthier blood pressure
-Lower inflammation
-Increase resilience to stress and anxiety
-Deeper focussed work

Do you know what is the number one regret that people have on death bed?
If you don’t know, here it is.
“I wish I’d had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.”

If we don’t care what other people think then we are developing superpower.
True superpower.
If we all harness this superpower, we will bring more peace, joy and satisfaction in life.
And, obviously, we will reduce a lot of stress and anxiety coming from this fast paced world.
If we practice this habit, I’m sure there wouldn’t be much regret on deathbed.

Most of the time the source of regret appears in later parts of life in different forms as follows.
-“I did things in the past which I never wanted to do actually, I don’t know why I did.”
-“I wasted my money, time, energy, and resources which I never wanted to waste but I did and I don’t know why.”
-“I did a lot of things to impress the people around me, most of whom left me a long time ago and some of them I left consciously.”

Bronnie Ware, the author of the internationally bestselling memoir “The Top Five Regrets of the Dying”, says, “Once we acknowledge that limited time is remaining, although we don’t know if that is years, weeks or hours, we are less driven by ego or by what other people think. Instead, we are more driven by what our hearts truly want.” Bronnie Ware spreads purpose and meaning of life, watch her TedTalk ” Regret-Free Living.”

Writing and self-assigned task

Another example, this piece of writing which I’m doing at the moment, nobody told me to write but I am writing.
This writing is purely for me, for my satisfaction, for my curiosity and clarity, and for my peace of mind.
I am just doing it for myself.
Nobody gave me topics, objectives, scopes, outlines, timelines, and any other directions whatsoever.
It’s pure me coming out of my mind.
It could be anything in your life that you really want to do and enjoy doing.
If you are able to make it successful, create value and monetize it and make a profession; outstanding.
If not in that level, this would be amazing self-satisfaction, many of us rarely taste it.

Nowadays, I talk to a lot of people at my regular work. I talk to my family, friends, kids, customers, clients, boss, coworkers all the time.
I go shopping, do online work, meet people online and offline, sometimes on the street or on different occasions.
And somewhere somehow something triggers my mind, I find topics to write about which may not be interesting for others but for me it looks interesting.
This is my lifestyle now, this writing is assigned to me by me for my satisfaction, that’s it.
This is the only way I know we find happiness and joy in life, this happiness is purely personal, at least that’s how I’m experiencing it.

For me now, regular writing is becoming another part of a self assigned task in my life.
Writing for me is a combination of art, science, and storytelling.
It is the blend of my creativity, analysis, and data.
It is my mixture of emotion and intuition.
I’m a scientist so I lean more towards the science side of writing, it gives me more room to experiment and explore.

Writing in the world of FAANG

Writing is about connecting with people as one partner in society and current technology is helping to connect people in different ways.
Just think of the world now without FAANG, the term popularized by Jim Cramer, the author of “Get Rich Carefully”: Facebook, Amazon, Apple, Netflix, and Google.
You might feel the world is at a standstill and everything looks flat without FAANG.

There were, there are, and there will be people doing the work of writing even after the age of AI.
Some people are always writers and always trying to connect other people who are readers like you and me.
Through FAANG, the new writing on the web, the digital writing is very useful and sophisticated now, through one click message spreads across the globe instantly.
These new technologies are helping to make the human connection more and more faster and stronger if we use them properly.
They are checking our attention all the time, 24/7.
For example, Google Ads alone collects almost more than 30 billion impressions in a day.
These human relationships help to drive innovations and discoveries faster than ever.
So the key is that technologies are becoming a more and more essential tool to make human relationships productive and innovative to bring value and help solving problems.

As a writer, my job is not to understand the technology but to understand the people, synthesize my life experiences with them and help to solve their problems, if possible.

Remember, playing on the ground is more fun than thinking or watching from the side.
Because you become a doer not a bystander.
I used to read a lot and still read a lot, but just reading others’ content felt like I’m watching the game from outside.
Why not synthesize my own education, training, and life experiences with society and offer to others?

I started this self-assigned writing assignment by thinking how to make myself into the ground, not necessarily for winning.
Once I started this journey I found that it is way more fun than never having stepped on into the middle ground at all.
We always think of only the end result in mind, but the process of moving towards the ground and doing the actual stuff is more powerful.

Minutes, hours, days, weeks, months, and years. They pass by, and we never notice them passing.
The real joy is in the process without knowing how time passed by, and then we reach into a finished product.
I am connecting this not only to my writing task but also to my long distance running habit.
I run each mile slowly, enjoying what comes in my mind, no need to finish a certain distance by a certain timeframe, just true joy of moving my body, passing the trees on the side, just running at a comfortable pace.

Self-assigned task and life priorities

Different people have different priorities in life.
I had seven priorities in my life before: health, finance, relationships, family, passions, spirituality, and happiness.
But now, I have one more in the middle somewhere: writing.

Health is my first self-assigned priority, so I always assign some tasks related to health to myself each day and everyday.
Recently, I’ve developed one habit of walking and talking at the same time for brain-oxygenation to unlock creative ideas.
This is also helping me a lot in my writing.
I also like to read while walking in the living room for at least 30 minutes everyday when I find suitable situations at home.
I like to talk on the phone while walking, I never talk on the phone while sitting.
I like to listen to music while cooking, doing dishes, and laundry.
There is a difference between practical ideas and creative ideas.
In my experience, walking or running helps to separate these thoughts and ideas to make them more concrete, realistic, and useful.
Remember, when we walk or run
-It helps in our blood flowing throughout the body, especially the brain.
-It helps to lubricate the joints to improve our mobility.
-It helps to build strength all over the body.
-It helps to increase energy and improves balance and coordination throughout the body.
-It helps to enhance cardiovascular and bone health.
-It helps to bring new ideas and innovative thoughts to our mind because you are not sitting with your static mind.
-It helps to bring the slow thinking process ahead of fast thinking to avoid possible mistakes.

Nowadays, I am learning to take a day off on a regular week so that I can make a move in my mind to reject the traditional weekend mindset.
It’s the richest form of life teaching us how to move through the preoccupied mindset like weekend off as an example.

The other day I assigned myself one hour and thirty minutes to watch the documentary “Becoming Warren Buffett,” alone at home on midday Tuesday, a weekday.
I wanted to watch it as a focussed task, a self-assigned task, not as entertainment.
While watching the documentary, I emailed one of my friends to watch it and told him that if you want some nuggets from Warren Buffett this is your greatest resource.
After watching this, the biggest nuggets I got myself from the documentary are.
-We have to lead with competence all the time, not with mediocrity.
-Patience wins over haste in life.
-We have to engage with focus and deep work with solid facts in hand.
-Don’t blame others but conduct brutal analysis to know what went wrong.
-Always look for people who are self-motivated because it’s hard to motivate other people. If we have the right people they will always be self-motivated.

Conclusion

Do you know what is the antidote of confidence in life?
For me, it is humility, I learned from the documentary “Becoming Warren Buffett”.
Humility is the acceptance that I’m not the exception.
It is the reality check that I’ve limits and boundaries in life.
At the end of the day, humility wins over confidence.
That’s what Warren Buffett’s whole life is all about. If you really want to go little deeper on Warren Buffett, read an article by Bill Gates in Harvard Business Review.

Yam Timsina, PhD, writes primarily on health basics, scientific progress, social upliftment, and value creation.

Disclaimer: “Please note that some links in this post are affiliate links, which means I may receive a small commission if you make a purchase through them, at no extra cost to you.” 

Does interesting work eliminate our imposter syndrome and bring genius?

“Talent hits a target that no one else can hit, genius hits a target no one else can see.”
Arthur Schopenhauer, German philosopher

An Ivy league degree is not the secret sauce of success.
Only you as a unique human mind are the secret sauce.
Our tenacity, grit, and discipline are secret sauces.
Our critical thinking and relationship skills, our real world experiences rather than old and outdated academic textbooks are the secret sauces.
Our willingness to unlearn the obsolete and uptrend rate of new learning is the secret sauce.

If we go to the core value of each human mind, success is all about our freedom.
Having freedom means we can choose whatever we want.
We can choose our places to live, careers to pursue, even our own customers, relationships, and experiences.
Freedom is success.
Freedom gives you the power to choose who you love, and when to leave if you need to.
We want to be free in all directions, but generally many of us want to be free mainly in four areas of our life: finance, health, relationship, and happiness.

Seth Godin, the author of new book “This Is Strategy” says, “We are free to choose what we want. Every strategy requires choice. And those choices often involve saying ‘no’ to things we could do, but won’t do.”

I strongly recommend to watch the documentary “Borrowed Future” as an example to understand how our freedom is paralyzed by the dark side of the student loan industry and how the system is built to work against us to kill our financial freedom.
At the moment finance is the number barrier for freedom for the public.

Imposter syndrome kills both excellence and genius

What is the biggest inhibitor of your freedom at the moment?
There could be many inhibitors for you but one for me was imposter syndrome which I didn’t know back then, and to be honest, still I have.
I’ve a doctorate in the field of my specialization, I’ve Ivy league postdoctoral training, I’ve multiple certifications and training.
I’ve taught and supervised thousands of students up to now, I’ve worked in multiple places, I’ve run multiple marathons.
I’ve a family with a wife and three kids. I’ve done hours of exercises and meditations in one sitting but still I feel I’m not qualified enough.
What is this?
Many of my close friends say I have imposter syndrome.
When I heard this for the first time many years ago, I was like what is this?
And one of my close friends reassured me that I have it.
He said, “Imposter syndrome is not any kind of mental illness, it’s a feeling of anxiety, stress, and especially of low self-esteem.
You have so much knowledge and real world experiences inside you to share with others but still you hesitate to do that, you feel inadequate.”
I said, “really.”

Few months ago I read a very fantastic book “The Big Leap” by Gay Hendricks.
This book is fascinating to describe human competence and genius.
Generally we all fall in the spectrum of some kind of competence in life, the only thing is that we sometimes don’t know where we actually fall in that spectrum.
That could be a zone of incompetence, competence, excellence, and genius.

Most of us live in the zone of excellence throughout our career because we become good in one profession and don’t want to know or explore our zone of genius.
We may not be aware of this genius zone in our lifetime if we are not conscious about it.
Because we have no clue of the genius zone in itself of how it appears and shapes in our lives, we never try to know it either.

The zone of genius is the area of innate skills and capacity rather than learned skills.
I am still not one hundred percent sure about it but what research is showing is that gradually learned skill dominates our life and innate skill disappears gradually over time if we don’t use it.
Some people take learned skill as a stepping stone to nurture and flourish the innate skill.
These people become great visionary and thought leaders like Steve Jobs and Albert Einstein.
Once we know this skill and recognize it, we can definitely sharpen it immensely.
And, most importantly, what I realized is that our imposter syndrome kills both our excellence and genius zones but it kills genius zones way faster.

The amazing thing is that the area of competence gives us linear progress but the area of genius gives us exponential progress.
If you really want to go deeper, please read this Time’s article by Walter Isaacson, he is also an acclaimed biographer of Steve Jobs and Albert Einstein, and an author of the new book Elon Musk.

Feeling of laziness and uninteresting work

One of the killers of not knowing the area of genius in our lives is our own feeling rather than truth.
We always say “I am lazy” but that’s not true if we go deeper to understand it.
Most of the time we are not lazy, we are just tired for various reasons.
Mainly, we become deprived of certain things like quality sleep, body hydration, good diet, and mental-physical exercise.
This bodily imbalance is more than a lazy feeling, it is more of a body exhaustion.

We always have to accept certain things in life because we are living beings.
Eight hours of quality sleep, a well hydrated and nourished body, physical and mental freshness from daily exercise and meditation are inevitable research proven facts.
These are the secret sauces not to have any lazy feelings.
Steve Jobs was a spiritual person, spent hours on meditation; Albert Einstein used to play violin and piano.
Why do you think these people spent time on these things?

Second reason for feeling lazy is we are not interested or excited about the work that we do.
Basically our body isn’t showing any lazy symptoms but we are not doing any interesting work for the mind.
Remember, doing interesting things or interesting work is very personal.
For example, I love to read about human psychology but one of my friends loves mathematics which is very boring for me.
My daughter spends hours in her design work without getting bored.
Interest is different for different people, please know it, from where the clue of genius opens.

Let’s see one more example which is also related to my interest.
I’m always excited about reading books, if the book is interesting to me.
Mostly I’m only interested in reading books on paper, they must be physical products for me.
I don’t read books digitally because I feel lazy and distracted. Digital books don’t interest me at all.
But, I don’t read physical newspapers, I read all of them digitally.
These kinds of habits are personal, unique and make our tasks interesting and exciting.
The bottom line is: if something is interesting then only we go deeper, and in this regard everybody is different for their specific task as the interesting task.
That is the beginning of habit creation in interest in our task.

Connection of interest with physical and mental well being

Remember we have to invest in our mental and physical well being at a higher level to do interesting work for a longer period of time.
How do you do this?
It could be anything as follows which actually I follow no matter what, and I have to do it everyday in some form.
I invest 20 minutes in a small walk everyday.
Or 20 minutes of short cycling everyday.
Or every alternate day in 4 to 6 miles running.
Or everyday in 20 minutes of yoga or exercise when I start my day.
Or every night before bed for 20 minutes of meditation.
And I also invest every weekend in either a longer hot shower or oil massage or sun bath or any social activities like cooking club, book club or any activity that is my area of interest.
Don’t take anything that you don’t like or you are not interested in.
And most importantly, I also invest my time on quality foods, especially varieties of vegetables and fruits throughout the day.

Remember we must have energy and vitality to do interesting things in this wonderful world and this is only possible by being healthy.

Always evaluate the interest based on the enthusiasm level that comes while doing the work, not according to the nature of the work that you are doing which somebody assigned to you.

Will Smith, actor and producer says, “Money and success don’t change people; they merely amplify what is already there.”
In my opinion, a healthy body and interesting work amplify both excellence and genius.

Interesting work amplifies innovation

When our work is not interesting to us, it’s hard to innovate.
When we talk about innovation, we always think about only technology but innovation is not about only technology.
Innovation is a mindset.
Technology is just one piece of innovation but innovation as a whole is development of new ideas and its incorporation to the mission of the work as we move forward.
Innovation is fresh thinking and direction for the future.

Technology is just a known unknown piece of innovation.
It is known because in many cases, we are certain that technology will develop and change society, human behaviours and psychology but, as an unknown part, we never know fully how it does the work.

Innovation is empowering people and developing skills.
Developing skill is another piece of innovation which is a known known piece of innovation.
It is a known known piece because there will obviously be challenges but we also know that we can acquire and master through training and knowledge to combat these challenges.

Innovation could be in anything like process, structure, pricing, product, or services development.
Innovation is a flexibility and is not only a promise, it is also a result.
Innovation is 24/7 work, never stops and never ends even if it doesn’t produce results within a specified timeframe.

Conclusion

The world is changing faster and faster than we ever imagine, we must change with it otherwise society will change accordingly and leave us behind.

Remember, today’s world is run by storytellers and storytelling is an important skill to master.
It’s not manipulation, lying, and exaggeration, it is another kind of human innovation to influence our society.
The innovation of storytelling is to create an emotionally and rationally strong case for new ideas and thinking.
So in today’s AI driven world, the skill of storytelling is another tool in our innovation toolbox.
Remember, AI can provide information but AI cannot become emotional and empathetic, can not generate interest and curiosity in us, only you and I can.

Chip Heath and Dan Heath, authors of “Made to Stick” say beautifully “simple” is finding the core of the idea and for our idea to endure, we must generate interest and curiosity.”

Yam Timsina, PhD, writes primarily on health basics, scientific progress, social upliftment, and value creation.

Disclaimer: “Please note that some links in this post are affiliate links, which means I may receive a small commission if you make a purchase through them, at no extra cost to you.” 

How do you measure the value of successful people?

People have a tendency to overestimate anything in a short period of time.
This is very normal especially in today’s fast paced technology driven world.
We’ve read that many great people are very patient and make relationships with long term goals and long term success.
Probably our normal mind cannot grasp the mathematics of compound effects quickly in different parts of life.
That may be the reason great people always say we overestimate what we can do in a year but underestimate what we can do in ten years.
In reality, many wildly specific innovations, projects, and life goals take a long time to build and grow.
We always measure the value of people at the end once we know the results.
That is just the stage of recognition, validation, and confirmation of the compounding effects by society.

Warren Buffette, Daniel Kahneman and slow thinking process

Warren Buffette, the chairman and CEO of Berkshire Hathaway, became a billionaire investor only at age 56 even though he started the investment business at a very early age.
At age 11, he bought three shares of stock of Cities Service Preferred for him and his sister.
He said that he read every single book on investing in the Omaha library, some of them even twice, before making the stock purchase.
He eventually sold them and saved $1,000 to reinvest at the age of 14.

The essence is, in order to build something gigantic which nobody has built before, it takes a long time and an unwavering path of perseverance.
It will push people to leave certain things like instant gratification and comfort zone, which means reaching the other side of the mental zone through the process of slow thinking.

Daniel Kahneman, Nobel laureate and author of “Thinking, Fast and Slow” says “The world makes much less sense than you think. The coherence comes mostly from the way your mind works.”

There is a hard correlation between uncertainty, creativity, and long term success.
Because our brains are wired to crave certainty, but great achievements come from uncertainty and risk.
I think it all comes down to a slow thinking process, a willingness to experiment, an eagerness to unlearn the obsolete, and sharpening the human mind.

Daily habits bring values

To be able to sustain for a long period of time, we should be very mindful of our daily habits like nutrition, sleep, exercise, and stress.
Because these are fuels to run the human engine for a very long period of time.
How we think affects how we feel emotionally.
How we feel emotionally affects how we behave externally.
How we behave externally affects how we feel physically.
How we feel physically affects how we perform our work for an extended period of time.
In this series of changes of emotions there are multiple decision making processes which are heavily influenced by our daily nutrition, sleep, exercise, and stress.

Daily habits affect the core areas of our life, especially health, relationships, and passion.
The truth is that everything affects and impacts everything else remaining in life.
These are strongly interdependent and integrated for sustainable value creation.
For example, we cannot keep enjoying the task for a long time if we are not passionate about the task.

Fear is the result of toxic and reactive life

If we don’t know how to ignore toxic things and toxic people in life we suffer and we never sustain long term goals.
Learning to ignore means being proactive and laser focused for the things that matter in life.
A reactive life is the most painful life, we must learn not to be reactive over anything.

There are many practices not to be reactive but I generally follow one and it’s working for me.
If I receive a good message on my smartphone, I reply quickly but if it’s bad news, I don’t reply because I risk responding carelessly.
So I try to keep my negative feelings in check by not responding to the negative message immediately.
Because when we take time to respond, we move towards a slow thinking process and are less likely to make mistakes.

When we start to ignore toxicity and negativity, we start to light up our darker side in the mind that sees the long term goals and prosperity.
We start to feel no fear at all.
I have a personal experience of it when I was running a first marathon.

Marianne Williamson, spiritual leader and author of “A Return to Love” says – “Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light not our darkness that most frightens us.”

Beating fear also comes with the habit of ignoring bad circumstances.
Phiona Mutesi, four time women’s chess olympian from Uganda, grew up in one of the poorest violent slums but emerged as one of the world’s best chess players.
She lost her dad from AIDS when she was three years old.
After a few years, she lost her sister and then she dropped out from school and couldn’t read and write at age 9, eventually became homeless.
She said, “Chess is a lot like my life. If you make smart moves you can stay away from danger, but any bad decision could be your last.”

Research shows that mental practice is almost as effective as true physical practice and doing both is always more effective than either alone.
Brain research shows that thoughts produce the same mental instructions as real actions.
Mental image affects many cognitive processes in our brain.
Motor control, attention, perception, planning, decision making, and memory are some of them.
Brain always gets trained for actual performance during visualization and thinking.
People like Warren Buffette, Daniel Kahneman, and Phiona Mutesi are experts at avoiding fear by doing mental practice over and over again.

Elizabeth Gilbert, a journalist and author of “Big Magic” says “ Fear, I recognize and respect that you are part of this family, you are absolutely forbidden to drive.”

Another inspiring example on how to deal with fear comes from Darwin Smith.
Darwin Smith, the former CEO of Kimberly-Clark, was given less than a year to live due to nose and throat cancer, but he lived 25 more years, most of them as a CEO.

Integrity and honesty as core values

Nobody lies to us more than we lie to ourselves.
If somebody lies in public, comes home and stands in front of the mirror but cannot look at the mirror, it means there is an integrity and honesty problem.
If we are not true to ourselves, we can feel out of whack in life.
A life of integrity and honesty is always an extension of our personal values.
Personal values bring long term values so we have to bolster them, we have to find our essence so that we can utilize our potential.
This is the real difference between real and fake people.
We like people who always value humor, compassion, and respect equally both in public and in private.

Business ethics in organizations

Nowadays, not only people, even business organizations hide many things in front of the public.
It is a business gimmick.
They do this because they know we love instant gratification.
Why don’t they reveal the details is surprising.
Because we don’t care or are unable to calculate the long term effect of it.
For example, do you actually know the exact mathematical algorithm for credit score calculation?
The only thing credit card companies say is what percentage of different factors is accounted for in the calculation but not the exact formula.

We know that a high credit score doesn’t indicate we are good money managers, we are just good debt managers, but they don’t say this.
The American corporate world has hypnotized us and we love and enjoy living in the dark hole.
Probably we become more happy when we get our first credit card than our first kiss to our significant other.

In 2021, scientists in MIT used fMRI technology to examine brain activity during the moment of purchase using credit card, they focussed on the reward center of the brain called Striatum, which releases dopamine.
This is the same part of the brain that is activated by addictive drugs like cocaine and amphetamines.
This is another proof of how much we love instant gratification.

Dave Ramsey, personal finance guru and the author of ‘The Total Money Makeover‘ says “The credit card is the cigarette of the financial world.”

Conclusion

Great people are patient as well as visionary.
Great vision without great people, most of the time, doesn’t work because people have the navigating power for the changing world.
People always come before vision, strategy, tactics, technology, and anything else.
These all are only parameters to recognize, validate, and confirm the value of people after a certain time.

Walter Bruckart, former VP of Circuit City was asked once what are the top five factors that lead the transition from mediocrity to excellence of any enterprise.
He answered, one would be people, two would be people, three would be people, four would be people and five would be people.

Best people on biggest opportunities is one way to aim for enduring success.
Another way to access the immense success is to put the best people on the biggest problems.
Ultimately, these are the best parameters to value great people.

It is very difficult to value people in the beginning but later value appears in different forms when society recognizes, validates, and confirms them.
The only thing is whether we play the game of patience or instant gratification.
Valued people built enduring greatness through a blend of personal humility, perseverance, and professional will.
Warren Buffette is the cumulative compounding effect of many many decades.
Daniel Kahneman’s Nobel prize is the compounding effect of many many decades of passionate work on psychology research.
Similarly, Phiona Mutesi’s accomplishment is the compounding effect of multiple unwavering decisions despite many terrible circumstances in her life.

The bottom line is we all are valuable whatever we do and wherever we live.
Each one of us has something to show, nurture, and contribute.
The director of the hospital or the janitor, both are contributing to run the hospital smoothly.
It’s up to the society when and how each one of them will be recognized, validated, and confirmed as a value creator.

It’s so true that a valuable life means we don’t wait for society to recognize, validate, and confirm what we do.
We just go out and do many things.
What keeps us going is other valuable people around us who are changing the world and bringing value.

Happy New Year 2025 to all of you.

Yam Timsina, PhD, writes primarily on health basics, scientific progress, social upliftment, and value creation.

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Are you scared or excited of forthcoming groundbreaking innovations?

Recently, I read a book “The Holy Grail of Investing” by Tony Robbins, one of my unmet and highly respected mentors.
I’ve never seen and met him personally but I am touched by his contribution to society.
I have consumed most of his books, videos, and learning materials.
There are many interviews of alternative investment business titans in his recent book “The Holy Grail of Investing”.
All titans are experts in their particular business areas and most of them are not in limelight, and some of them are even not found normally in today’s social media.
They are committed and just doing their work, producing value to people, and people are making them billionaires.

One of the early lessons I’ve learned from Tony Robbins is that we have to see things as their real occurrence, not making them worse than as they are.

After reading “The Holy Grail of Investing” and especially the interview section from the investment titans, some of the nuggets that touched me are here.

We have to see things better than their original version because we deserve better.
We shouldn’t lie and exaggerate but we must demonstrate a clear vision, if there is no vision everything will die.
We have to make our vision a reality with perseverance, hard work, and risk taking.
We must make things the way we actually see them in our mind.
We shouldn’t be scared of any change, because change is beautiful and brings prosperity.
We should stop looking at the world from the eye of suspicion, negativity, and cynicism.

Future and some groundbreaking innovations

Elon Musk’s Neuralink is based on the use of thousands of small electrodes embedded in the brain to read neuron signals and transmit them to a computer.
This could be another milestone for humanity by restoring human vision and a possibility in restoring the vision even in blind people.
We can also restore the motor function of paralyzed patients including the treatment of neurological disorders in people suffering from Parkinson’s and Alzheimer’s disease.

Dr. David Sinclair, PhD, an author of “Lifespan” and professor in Harvard University has already demonstrated that we can reverse aging in cells and restore our youth.
Sinclair’s lab reports that aging is no more due to mutations to the DNA but it is due to errors in the epigenetic instructions by some kind of mismatch.
We have the capacity to reboot these cells, remove their corrupted instruction files, and restore our proper function.
It is all about rejuvenating our body and preventing diseases from aging.

CRISPR is another groundbreaking technology that edits and modifies genes.
It can modify healthy T-cells from a donor and could attack cancer cells in patients.
Dr. Samarth Kulkarni, PhD, CEO of CRISPR Therapeutics says, “We’re going to do one-time procedures to change your genome, and hopefully you’re preventing disease or completely curing yourself of disease.”

Hermeus, a company dedicated to supersonic travel, is aiming for five times faster travel than commercial aircraft.
Supersonic travel means we can fly from Chicago to Doha in three hours.
We will fly at 90 thousand feet with the scene of curvature of the earth.

ICON, another company, is involved in 3D-printed homes.
These homes are created by a giant printer and look very nice and attractive, they will be resistant to wind, water, and mold.
How do we feel about 3D-printed homes to live in?

Helium is a company which is using the blockchain to build real communication networks.
They are working to build a 5G cellular network using the blockchain.

Impossible is a food company which is trying to save the planet by providing us only plant proteins.
We now know that plant protein is healthier and tastes better than animal protein.

Innovation in green energy

Sometimes we remain poor not only as an individual but as a nation even though a nation has huge natural resources potential.
There might be a lack of technology, capital, manpower, willpower or the combination of all.
There are many such examples in the world but one I found quite interesting is about the country Congo.
Congo has more cobalt mineral than the rest of the world combined but only one fifth of the Congo population has access to electricity.
I’ve spent quite a bit of time studying cobalt metal in graduate school so I was little interested in this natural resource.

As a fact, cobalt is so important that it is used in nearly every smartphone, tablet, laptop, and electric vehicle to give batteries stability.
It also keeps them away from overheating.
Apple and Tesla are making these products and both are trillion dollar companies.

Like many other resources including coal, cobalt is one of the non-renewable natural resources and consuming excess non-renewable resources is one reason for climate change.
If climate change is a global issue then polluting various countries through waste and emissions from coal mining or by other means doesn’t solve the problem.
All humans live in a global village now and global issues like pollution, climate change have no borders.
We must have a global shared responsibility to protect the planet.

One option for protecting the planet is through green energy technology.
Among many options for green energy technology, one of the cleanest sources of green energy is hydrogen.
When hydrogen burns the only byproduct produced is water vapor.
The only burden is its management like creating, storing, transporting, and leakage management during its transportation which are complex and very expensive.
These things cost a lot of money in comparison to coal management.

For example, hydrogen must be cooled to -253 degree celsius and highly pressurized at least ten thousand psi for its transportation.

Simon Hodson and Dr. Nansen Saleri, chairman and R&D chief from Omnis Energy, are on a mission for conversion of any hydrocarbon into net zero energy with no emissions and no waste.

Titans, their thought process, and success

Behind all of these groundbreaking innovations, there is capital as well as human investment.
Entrepreneurs, scientists, businessmen, and investors all work together as a cohort to make these innovations successful.

Peter Diamandis, a futurist and an author of “The Future is Faster than You Think” says, “technology is the force that converts scarcity into abundance, over and over again. With AI, we will see the first 3 person, billion dollar company in the next year.”

Vinod Khosla, founder of Khosla Ventures says, “what you already know isn’t important but what is your rate of learning is what the world needs now.”

New knowledge and skills are always interdisciplinary, it’s all related and this correlation gives us a fresh perspective for new things.
Pretty soon, we will have AI to assist as a copilot in every profession.

David Sacks, an entrepreneur and AI and Crypto czar for President-elect Donald Trump says, “The history of innovation is that as we make humans more productive, it makes our species richer. It doesn’t put people out of work. We always find new things for them to do.”

Wil VanLoh, founder and CEO of Quantum Energy says, “Whatever advancement we achieve, World always looks for more people having self-awareness, humility, and great communication.
We are made to interact with other humans, getting connected to each other, and communicating with each other which are invaluable assets.”

Michael Rees, Co-President of Blue Owl Capital, says “it’s not about being the smartest person in the room, it’s about being a partner to the person on the other side of the table.”

Partnership is the end result of awareness, humility, and communication.

Warren Buffett, an investor and philanthropist, was once asked about what was his best investment in life in an interview and he surprised the whole audience by not saying the investment in Coca-Cola, what he said is, his best investment was the communication skill that he learned from Dale Carnegie.

Bill Ford, CEO of General Atlantic’s says, “Entrepreneurs are the most interesting people in the world. They see the world differently, they’ve been told about fifty times that their idea won’t work, but they somehow persevere and make it work.”

Entrepreneurs persevere and obsess with their vision, opportunity, and risk.

One of the keys to success, I found in the book “The Holy Grail of Investing” is, we need a model of life using both a value creation and management philosophy, and merge them together as a life goal.
We have to build a system centric mindset rather than a person-centric mindset to give more value to the society.

Barry Sternlicht, chairman and CEO of Starwood Capital says, “When I think about my dad, my worst day now is way better than his best day in his whole life, growing up in a war.”

Ramzi Musallam, CEO of Veritas Capital says, “We all have seen and visited many rural and poor areas of the world and this gives us the opportunity to see how others live and how to be more empathetic to many issues that we face across the globe.”

He further says, “We have to learn from failures, because if we don’t have failure muscles, it’s very difficult to succeed.
I’ ve seen hardships and gone through it so I understand what success means.”

One common skill great entrepreneurs possess is, they try to develop a product or service that could be transformative in people’s lives.
Sometimes, they don’t care about what people think, they just build the right things.
Eventually, people will come and join their product or service.
Nobody told Steve Jobs to make the Apple iPhone, nobody told Henry Ford to make affordable cars.
It’s all their obsession for the product they love to work with.
The only thing they do is make these products or services so simple, useful, and distribution friendly so that people make a great connection with the product or service.

At the end of the day, all great entrepreneurs have the same conclusion, success is the combination of compassion, passion, and consistency.
They love building what they love to do.

Michael Kim, founder of MBK Partners, in answering a question regarding business opportunity says, “There are 450 million driver’s licenses in China but only 270 million license plates. Issuance of license plates is slowing down even further as the government tries to control emissions.
There are 180 million drivers who are looking for cars.”

Michael further says, “there are differences to do business in America and Asia.
If you lay off your employees, you fail to manage both companies as well as people. You didn’t do your job nicely. You have to learn how to do better procurement and consolidation for value creation. There are ways you can do it without laying people off.”

He adds, “work-life balance is not appropriate, create work-life harmony. Harmonize work with our personal life so that there is mutual benefit.”

Conclusion

Many great entrepreneurs and investors agree with the notion that we have to view our work much like we view our lives.
We have to stick with our values in order to be happy and productive for a long time.
It’s very difficult to be happy if we are out of our values.

David Golub, CEO of Golub Capital says, “One of the games of life is to learn from other people’s mistakes as well as our own mistakes.
Mentors can be so valuable because they share with you wisdom that comes from decisions they wish they’d made differently.”

Yam Timsina, PhD, writes primarily on health basics, scientific progress, social upliftment, and value creation.

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If stress is killing you my friend, what do you do next?

Few weeks ago, one of my dear friends shared with me his pain that wasn’t related to physical pain, it was more of a mental, emotional, and psychological pain.
My dear friend is a software engineer, he lives in the suburb of Philadelphia in a beautiful house with his wife and an amazing daughter.
He works for a big e-commerce company.
He told me he is in a position now to leave the job and go back to India and sell coconut water on the Indian beach.
His words, “I feel like my life now is a piece of shit, my life is draining, and all the time I feel heavy and overwhelmed.”
Obviously, it was an informal derogatory language that came out of his mouth suddenly, but I took it very seriously in my mind and it made me really think about our work and its impact on our life.

I am quite aware that people have different problems in life and most of them are stressed out due to financial problems.
If you earn a good amount of money and run your life well above the average American household, you should be happy.
But I feel like that’s not true anymore.
This world has changed enormously now.
My dear friend doesn’t go to the office, almost 90 percent of his work is remote, he can work from his comfort home, he doesn’t have traffic problems, he has no 9 to 5 barrier, but still he is suffering more than anybody else who goes to the office everyday.

My thought process emerged and I’m asking myself why people’s lives go out of balance and they suffer so heavily even though they look happy from outside.

One key factor that I found from my research is elevated stress due to excessive workload.
Stress happens due to many reasons but one of the reasons for elevated stress is excessive mental burden that affects the healthy body.

A lot of people forget that a healthy body is our main asset in life and success is the action it enables.

One of the things I found in stressed people is they are unable to observe everything around them.
They cannot notice the smallest details around them and they are unable to connect the dots around those details and they give up very quickly.
They can’t even reflect on the day, what they actually did, and what they ate, and how many hours they had a quality sleep the day before.
We must understand that good health is the access to a good life, we can’t give up this asset so fast so quickly.

I advocate a lot about healthy lifestyle and nutrition than any other things in life.
I strongly believe that if our body is healthy we can walk boldly and unwaveringly with full authority over time, creativity, and life choices.
This authority is key to spreading joy and happiness in life.

I also believe that a healthy body reassures us that we are worthy of personal sovereignty and are able to create plan B for life.
Healthy body reminds us that we are not here just to stress out and kill disease.

The depressing news that I found from The American Institute of Stress is that at least 120,000 people die each year as a direct result of work-related stress in US.
At least 65 percent of U.S. workers say work is the main cause of stress.
If we convert that stress into stress related healthcare costs, that would be $190 billion a year.
This astronomical number indicates that we have to take action for this silent killer in society.

Science of stress and modern life

The total burden on our body that builds up when we are exposed to repeated stressors is allostatic load.
It is basically the total effects that chronic stress has on our mental and physical health.
It is a ‘wear and tear’ on us due to life and environmental stressors.

Our body’s sympathetic nervous system produces stress chemicals and the adrenal hormone system protects our body from the effects of stress at low levels.
The problems start to appear at high levels when we start to expose stress repeatedly over time.

When our body becomes overloaded with stress, it shows many physiological effects and later diseases due to inflammation caused by free radicals.
Remember, stress response ignites free radicals, the damaging molecules that lead to inflammation.
If we suffer from chronic stress, we feel no pleasure in anything.
My dear friend used to say he doesn’t like social connections which is one of the biggest symptoms of chronic stress.

As we know high stress is bad but low stress is also not good for us.
Generally at a low stress level, we feel underload and low morale, and may be a little bit of fatigue and then we reach the optimum point of stress level.
But once we pass that optimum level, we move towards exhaustion, breakdown, completely overload, and burndown.
I believe that’s what happened to my dear friend.

Chronic stress invites many negative effects in our body.
Dysfunctional mitochondria, increased inflammation, changes in brain function, changes in genes and epigenome are some of them.
Chronic stress is a main cause of faster aging by losing telomeres and damaging DNA.
To make you more memorable, our DNA is a shoelace and telomeres are the caps at the end of shoelace to protect DNA.
So basically, telomeres are the caps to prevent breaking down of DNA.

If we are too stressed all the time, normal aging is no more normal.
A higher level of stress creates shortening of telomeres, so one stressful year can damage five to ten years of normal aging.

Remember, Dr. Aseem Malhotra, MD, cardiology professor and author of “The 21-Day Immunity Plan” says “Stress is a silent killer.”
We have to recognize it as soon as possible and act accordingly.

Stress and hormone secretion

When our body detects emotional and physical stress, our sympathetic nervous system becomes very active.
Our brain produces chemical signals that increase adrenaline and cortisol in our blood.
These two stress hormones are made and released by adrenal glands located next to our kidneys.

Adrenaline increases our heart rate, breathing rate, carbohydrate metabolism so that we can use energy quickly if we need to run away.
Cortisol gets sugar into the bloodstream by increasing its production so that our brain can use enough energy to get us out of mess.
Cortisol also sends a message to the rest of our body systems like digestive, reproductive, and immune systems not to use much energy.
This looks normal in an any emergency situation but under chronic stress, these effects on body systems become serious.

Stress brings anxiety or panic attacks and that eventually leads to hyperventilation.
This happens to a high rate of breathing and oxygen consumption in blood.
Hypertension, heart attack, and stroke are common due to increase in heart rate and blood pressure.
Heartburn, reflex, bloating, constipation are common due to interference with the normal release of digestive enzymes.
Depression and anxiety are also due to fewer immune cells being made.

Stress hormones increase risk of diabetes, decrease sperm formation, decrease testosterone in men, change in menstrual cycle, and worsen PMS symptoms in women.
Difficulty sleeping, inability to pay attention, memory problems, learning difficulties, mood swings, irritability are other problems of excess stress hormones.

Stress hormones have a huge effect on our brain.
The amygdala, the part of our brain that controls fear gradually enlarges, and the hippocampus and prefrontal cortex, the memory and decision making points, gradually shrink.

One fact is that some people are more susceptible to stress and others are more resilient.
Our response to stress is encoded in our own DNA, an inherited factor, that determines our capacity for resilience.
Our response factor is also dependent on epigenetic and environmental factors which affect our gene expression.

Stress and irritable bowel syndrome

Stress has a very bad negative effect especially for people with IBS, irritable bowel syndrome.
One reasons I wrote about IBS and stress together is personal. One of my family members has been suffering from IBS for a long time, so I did some research and found out that stress has severe implications for IBS patients.
This disease can only be cured by lifestyle change and diet selection. This is my personal experience from my family.
IBS is a chronic gastrointestinal disorder characterized by abdominal pain and change in bowel habits.

Dr. William Chey, MD, professor of gastroenterology at University of Michigan, says “The symptoms of IBS are triggered mainly by two reasons: food and stress.”

For IBS patients, stress can damage the interactions between the brain and gut.
Stress results in overactivity or underactivity of the hypothalamic-pituitary-adrenal (HPA) axis along with autonomic nervous, metabolic, and immune systems.

Stress increases intestinal permeability also called gut leakiness.
This leakiness allows potentially harmful toxins into the bloodstream which increases IBS complications and GI pain.

Stress can alter the secretions and movement of the intestine due to slow down or speed up bowel transit causing pain, constipation, and diarrhea.

Stress increases visceral hypersensitivity that leads to bloating and abdominal pain and worsen the bowel urgency.

Dr. Megan Riehl, PsyD, GI Psychologist and author of “Mind Your Gut” says “Stress changes the stress hormone level and alters the bacterial composition in the gut.”

Our gut microbes have the capacity to upregulate stress responses and increase the risk of depression.
The gut microbes affected by stress can alter mood and eating behaviour.
They trigger cravings for highly processed and flavored foods containing processed carbohydrates, sodium, and fats.

Conclusion

There are hundreds of reasons why you should be healthy and stress free because when you become healthy and stress free then you can become anything and offer anything in this world.
This is the power of a healthy body.
Having good health and stress free life frees up a huge amount of mental space.
Instead of having most of our brain occupied by only our problems like how we’re going to get rid of this illness; all of that mental space is utilized to focus on other things like how we’re going to contribute to change this world.

So my advice to all of you is this:
Visualize your life as a series of stories that gives you a chance to take a step back, look at the whole picture, and try to develop a new perspective of your life.
Take a few deep breaths because that recruits our nervous system to help you return to the present moment.

My dear friend, there are mainly three kinds of mind that operate our body: emotional, rational, and wise.
Most of the time we use our emotional mind, and very few times we use our rational mind.
What we have to do is we have to use with a wise mind most of the time because this mind is in the center of rationality and emotion.

We have to think bigger picture and investigate problems from many corners of our lives to balance emotional and rational mindset.
So my friend, start to use a wise mind by adopting a small habit change and do it everyday as a prioritized routine work same like your everyday software development work: (1) Five minutes of breath work and meditation for mental exercise (2) Move your body for fifteen minutes for physical exercise, and (3) Eat a healthy diet mainly plant based food for positive energy.
Your work stress will gradually go away, it will not go overnight but eventually will go away, you will feel it, but only if you stick with your habit. This is my personal experience from my family.

Dr. Kelly McGonigal, PhD, a research psychologist and author of “The Joy of Movement”says “Go after what it is that creates meaning in your life and then trust yourself to handle the stress that follows.”

If you have a few minutes, please watch Dr. Kelly McGonigal’s TedTalk: “How to make stress your friend?

Yam Timsina, PhD, writes primarily on health basics, scientific progress, social upliftment, and value creation.

Disclaimer: “Please note that some links in this post are affiliate links, which means I may receive a small commission if you make a purchase through them, at no extra cost to you.” 

Why do I remember: fatty liver, smiling glutathione, and broccoli sprouts?

We had an important project briefing in the office.
Our team was working on the scale up of one of the API molecules for a pharmaceutical company.
API means active pharmaceutical ingredient which later becomes the drug molecule which we use as a medication for a specific disease.
I didn’t see my colleague Natasha who was supposed to give an update of the project that we were handling.
Her manager came and said “Natasha can’t make her update today because her grandfather is hospitalized.”

After three days, Natasha came into the office and she told us what’s going on in her family.
She told me about her grandfather, a retired car mechanic, no alcohol habit, but still suffers from fatty liver and his liver is almost non-functional.
Her grandfather is taking glutathione supplement to improve liver function but he is not getting satisfactory results.
After hearing this I immediately remembered the glutathione molecule from my graduate school, our only master antioxidant in our body, and how crucial this chemical is for us.

At one point in our conversation, Natasha said, “when I hear the word liver, the only thing that comes to my mind is my grandpa.”
This answer penetrated so deep down in my head that I couldn’t stop mentioning this here.
Sometimes, we don’t know what triggers us to do things in life.
She didn’t say that the liver is one major organ in our body that filters our blood and produces hormones.
To be honest, I became very emotional when she connected liver and her grandpa together and I realized how much we care about the people whom we love.
And, most importantly, how much our life is affected by it.

So the question is, what is the connection between liver and glutathione?

When there is imbalance between the amount of fatty acids absorbed and disposed of by the liver, generally non-alcoholic fatty liver disease (NAFLD) appears.
This imbalance increases a buildup of fat in the liver leading to inflammation and fibrosis.
Glutathione is a very strong antioxidant that our body makes and uses every single day.
It helps to reduce cell damage in the liver.
Its deficiency can contribute to fatty liver disease.

Dr Robert H. Keller , MD, a pioneer in glutathione research who is first to receive a US medical patent for glutathione, says “ We are oxygen based organisms. We live on oxygen, and oxygen creates a fire. That fire is called an oxidant. In order to put it out, we need a very good antioxidant. Many antioxidants work for one thing, or two things, or three things. Glutathione works for everything.”

Liver disease and glutathione

Approximately 2 million deaths occur each year worldwide due to liver disease.
The most common liver disease-related deaths are cirrhosis and hepatocellular carcinoma.
The most common causes of cirrhosis are viral hepatitis, alcohol, and non-alcoholic fatty liver disease.

So now let’s see, what is the biochemistry of glutathione?
Glutathione is made from three amino acids: glycine, cysteine and glutamine acid.
It is a tripeptide and produced by enzymatic reactions using these three amino acids.
It is produced by our liver and plays a major role in tissue building and immunity development by attacking damaging free radicals.

Free radicals are very reactive molecules and are produced in the body by mitochondria due to various reasons.
The most probable factors are poor nutrition, pollution, stress, processed foods, fast aging, heavy metals and toxins exposure, and over consumption of alcohol.

Dr. Gustavo Bounous, MD, says “It’s the body’s most important antioxidant because it’s within the cells.”
His research indicates that a deficiency in glutathione is linked to several diseases and a lack of innate cysteine inhibits glutathione production.

Glutathione is anti-inflammatory in its action so it relieves the symptoms associated with autoimmune disease.
This antioxidant is important for the metabolism of vitamins C and E including many minerals.
People with severe stress due to chronic disease have less glutathione to protect their liver from damage.
Many times liver damage becomes really bad and all the cells die.

Dr. Mark Hyman, MD, author of “Young Forever” says “Glutathione is the mother of all antioxidants.”
His book “Young Forever’ teaches to reduce inflammation and support the health of our immune system, especially how to exercise, sleep, and destress for healthy aging.

After reading “Young Forever”, I believe there is a very simple rule in life: we don’t need a doctor with MD or scientist with PhD to know what makes us sick and what we need to do.
We don’t need dieticians and nutritionists to follow diet rules; we just need to be a little bit more conscious in the kitchen about what we are making and eating and what we are drinking throughout the day.
I recommend watching Dr. Mark Hyman’s TedTalk.

Research also indicates that glutathione helps in the detoxification of xenobiotic and endogenous compounds including carcinogens.
Xenobiotics are foreign substances but endogenous ones are produced within the body.

Glutathione helps to reduce fine lines and wrinkles improving skin elasticity.
It helps with patients with cystic fibrosis, vascular diseases, AIDS, ulcerative colitis, Crohn’s disease.
It improves sperm motility in infertile men.

Low glutathione, obviously, increases risk of many liver diseases: drug induced liver injury, alcohol and non alcohol related fatty liver disease, liver fibrosis, cirrhosis, and liver failure.

People with low glutathione suffer from breakage of red blood cells, spleen enlargement, gall stone, mental imbalance, and anemia.
People suffering from cancer, AIDS, and chronic disease, all have very low glutathione.
Low glutathione increases risk factor for chronic obstructive pulmonary disease and atherosclerosis.

Glutathione, avocado, asparagus, and broccoli sprouts

Dr. Mark Hyman, MD, says, “Methylation ingredients are perhaps the most critical to keep the body producing glutathione.”

The best way to keep our body producing this antioxidant is to eat enough natural foods containing this antioxidant including methylation ingredients.

Best foods containing glutathione are: asparagus, avocados, spinach, okra, and broccoli.
Similarly, brussels sprouts, cauliflower, kale, mustard green, garlic, mangoes, shallot, onion, fish and poultry are also good supplies for glutathione.
Cysteine is a building block to make glutathione.
So, foods rich in cysteine like avocados, egg, sunflower seeds, beans, whey, citrus fruits, kiwi, pepper, Brazil nuts, fish, cottage cheese, brown rice are extremely helpful.

Foods rich in vitamin C helps to turn on glutathione and helps to reduce toxic damage.
Vitamin C rich foods are citrus fruits, kiwi, and peppers.

Selenium is another key component of glutathione.
Foods rich in selenium like Brazil nuts, yellowfin tuna, halibut, sardines, turkey, cottage cheese, and brown rice are extremely important.
Never forget to folate foods like garbanzo beans, liver, pinto beans, lentils, asparagus for better glutathione.

Remember high levels of selenium from supplements could have negative effects, so it’s always better to take it naturally unless otherwise advised by health care professionals.

We have to reduce the amount of alcohol because it uses the high amount of our glutathione levels.
High quality sleep and regular exercise increase our glutathione level.

Regular consumption of NAC helps to promote production of glutathione.
N-acetyl cysteine (NAC), is a precursor to glutathione.

Oral glutathione is not well absorbed and is not the best way to increase our glutathione level.
Research indicates that glutathione supplement can improve liver function for people with non alcoholic fatty liver damage.
This might be the reason that the doctor prescribed it to Natasha’s grandpa.

As a supplement, standard glutathione is poorly absorbed when we take orally so that S-acetyl-L-glutathione, liposomal glutathione, and reduced glutathione are much more absorbable.
It’s always good to look for complementary antioxidants like vitamin C, alpha lipoic acid, milk thistle, N-acetyl cysteine (NAC), and selenium.

These supplements are expensive to have.
More than that, we have to reflect back and ask ourselves why and how we arrived at this stage in life.
Sometimes, this ‘why’ is very helpful to change our life, maybe, for various reasons we became unable to care about our health, about our foods, and about our lifestyle in the past.

Conclusion

During my conversation with Natasha, I’d asked one more question to her, “Natasha, you are not ill but how much impact does your family experience when your grandpa suffers from chronic illness?”
She didn’t answer in words.
I only saw her tearing eyes.
Our tears speak millions of words.
And, this is not only Natasha’s story, there are millions of households like this.

We store cookies and crackers in our pantry, we don’t walk to Walmart which is less than a mile from home.
We hesitate to purchase fresh avocado and broccoli sprouts regularly because they are not tasty.
And we always complain about no time for exercise, gaining weight and not being healthy.
If you are always sick, then, ask at least a few times why you are always sick.
You will find many answers, write at least three answers.
Pick one and start to work on it, you know what you need to do.

Let me make one statement here, if we hear the word liver, let’s remember avocado, asparagus, and broccoli sprouts; then only glutathione smiles.
Avocado, asparagus, broccoli sprouts, and smiling glutathione.

Yam Timsina, PhD, writes primarily on health basics, scientific progress, social upliftment, and value creation.

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What is my illness journey: oxidative stress to antioxidant diet?

At one point in my life I had chronic illness and my doctor told me I have to take one medicine throughout my life.
I was not happy at all.
I used to have severe fatigue, muscle pain, frequent headache, and a kind of skin problem.
My doctor had a conclusive result: I was suffering from oxidative stress.
I also believed myself because I was a scientist working around radiation, toxins, and chemicals all the time.
I thought, maybe, I elevated my free radicals in my body.

I started doing some experiments on my body after reading some books and some research reports.
To be honest, I found so much information, sometimes conflicting and always overwhelming.
Finally, I started to see something that is working for my body.
By the grace of God, I am medicine free now.
As a result of my own research and experiments on my body, I developed two habits.
First habit, I always started my day with a very good balanced breakfast with a lot of vibrant colored vegetables and fruits with whole grain.
And second habit, I started intermittent fasting.

As I said, I am a scientist so I found my best by fine-tuning what I eat and what I do.
My attitude is trying new things and always learning.
It took me years but I learned how to do it and started to feel really good after eating my chosen plant based real foods.
I started to feel physically and emotionally the best when I eat vibrant colored vegetables and fruits in the morning.
I don’t know but I feel like these two habits that I developed are somehow connected for my body, so that I am a vocal proponent of personalized medicine, food, habit, actually anything that we eat and do in life.
Every single human body is different.
I realized that fasting is working really well on my body.
I started to feel really energetic and amazing during and after fasting.

There are different ways I generally go for intermittent fasting, my goal is to get fasting 16 to 18 hours with the eating window of 6 to 8 hours daily.
My best fasting window period, generally, is from 8am to 6pm when I am out of home.
So, the only thing I do is skip lunch and keep my body hydrated with water or lime water or black tea or green tea or black pepper-turmeric water.
The worst part of me is up until now I’m not able to fast on weekends or holidays or when I am at home.
To be honest, I want to enjoy life when I’m around my family and you also should enjoy it, just do what is best for you.
We all are human so we must allow for the joys that our food can bring in our lives.

Intermittent fasting and mitochondria

So let’s reveal a little bit about the science behind fasting.
Intermittent fasting allows our body to adapt to different conditions ranging from normal to severe.
It is a mitochondrial fuel switching process that brings metabolic flexibility in cells.
When our mitochondria feels overwhelmed with tons of various foods, we invite metabolic inflexibility.
It means our body is unable to use all of its fuel sources.
If our body cannot use energy quickly, our metabolism is off.
This leads to brain fog, fatigue, confusion, and memory lapses.
Metabolic flexibility is possible only by optimized diet and lifestyle change.

Our mitochondria are very smart and highly equipped organs to switch between using sugars and fats as fuels in the body.
Fat is a great energy source.
The problem is that our brain prefers to run on sugar and doesn’t use fat very well.
During time of fasting, mitochondria will use fat and let the brain use sugar for energy.
Intermittent fasting stretches our mitochondria and it promotes them to break down fats.
The breakdown of fatty acids into ketones which make energy in our cells and these
ketones help cells to communicate, reorganize and clean up.
During fasting, our body makes new mitochondria and repairs the damaged ones.
Therefore, intermittent fasting is key for mitochondrial health that brings energy and well being for us.

Recent research shows that intermittent fasting improves mitochondrial function especially in brain, liver, and skeletal muscles which are key for brain aging and neuroprotective effects.
It has been shown that intermittent fasting enhances neuronal survival.
Research also indicates that intermittent fasting reduces inflammation and helps to delay disease progression for people with asthma, rheumatoid arthritis, multiple sclerosis, Parkinson’s disease, Alzheimer’s disease, and cancer.

Research also shows that we can cut fat with intermittent fasting without losing muscle mass and it improves memory and cognition.

Dr. Jason Fung, a nephrologist and author of the “The Obesity Code” says “your body has two fuel sources: food and stored food. You’re switching them when you fast,” and he adds “the price of fasting is zero.”

The role of ketones is also interesting, they improve performance of cells by increasing the stress resistance, antioxidant activity and decreasing inflammation.
Most interestingly, they allow brain cells to grow and make new connections there.
Free radicals are produced from normal metabolism in our body, mainly made in mitochondria. The kind of food we eat is another source of free radicals like fats, sugars, processed foods, alcohol or pollutants from the environment, radiation from the sun, or smoking, or toxic chemicals from any place like pesticides from fruits and vegetables.

Free radicals exist less than a second but can cause significant changes to nearby fat, protein, and DNA molecules.
Oxidative stress means damage from free radicals that causes arthritis, vision loss, heart disease, cancers, and quick aging.

Dr. Steven Gundry, physician and author of the “The Plant Paradox
says “fasting or intermittent fasting gives us an opportunity to really get all the best cells all the time and that’s what we all want.”

Antioxidants and mitochondria

So, what about the science behind vibrant colored fruits and vegetables?
As we know now mitochondria have clean up members that protect from free radicals, they are called antioxidants.
The work of mitochondria and antioxidants are complementary to each other.
Mitochondria produce reactive oxygen species like free radicals as damaging molecules and the role of antioxidants is to neutralize them.
These antioxidants are transported to mitochondria by transporter proteins.

Scientists have delivered antioxidant molecules to mitochondria for liver injury caused by oxidative stress in mitochondria.
This is a significant step towards chronic disease treatment.
Scientists have also discovered a key molecule that carries glutathione, the major antioxidant in our body, to mitochondria where free radicals are produced in large amounts.
By stimulating antioxidant transport to mitochondria, we can prevent or treat a number of diseases including aging, neurodegeneration, and cancers.

Dr. Deepak Chopra, author of “Perfect Health” and a Clinical Professor says, “foods that are deep blue, purple, red, green, or orange are leaders in antioxidants and contain many nutrients that boost immunity and enhance health.”

Our body makes very small amounts of antioxidants so we have to eat foods high in antioxidants.
Anti inflammatory diets high in antioxidants like vitamins A, C, E, lutein, lycopene are essential to make our mitochondria healthy and active.
Antioxidants from foods are way powerful and better than external supplements.
For example, foods have eight types of vitamin E but we have only one available as a supplement.

Dr. William Li, author of “Eat to Beat Disease“, a physician scientist says, “selling antioxidant supplements has become a big business, but nothing beats the incredible antioxidant properties of fresh, whole foods.”

Some of the most important antioxidants are sulforaphane from cruciferous vegetables, resveratrol from grapes and red wine, curcumin from turmeric powder, quercetin from onions.
They all decrease oxidative stress and restore mitochondrial function.

Cumin is an antioxidant containing spice that helps with digestion of fats, helps when bloated or having abdominal pain.
Turmeric is another very important antioxidant containing spice.
Curcumin is the active compound in turmeric and when taken with black pepper shows antioxidant and antiinflammatory benefits.
Research indicates that turmeric increases blood flow and improves depression and cognition.
Large amount of turmeric must be taken to get benefits because our body cannot absorb all of it because it is fat soluble.

Foods from plants are the main source of antioxidants.
They are fruits, vegetables, whole grains, nuts, seeds, herbs, spices, and cocoa.
Most important antioxidants found in our normal foods are shown below, but remember, these are only the tip of the iceberg.

Vitamin C – Citrus fruits, kiwi, mangoes, broccoli, spinach, berries, peppers, concord grape juice, bitter melon, olive oil
Vitamin E- Avocados, nuts, seeds, tomatoes, mangoes
Allium sulfur – Leeks, onions, garlic, chives
Flavonoids – Black tea, green tea, citrus fruits, red wine, onions, berries, apples, red cabbage, grapes, broccoli
Isoflavonoids – Soybeans, tofu, lentils, peas, milk
Polyphenols – Pomegranates, olive oil, flax, grapes, oregano, dark chocolate, pecans, legumes, teas, rosemary, Greek coffee, wine, taro root, sweet potato, red cabbage, purple corn, elderberry
Indoles – Cruciferous vegetables like broccoli, cabbage, cauliflower, turnips, brussels sprouts
Lignans – Flaxseed, sesame seeds, bran, whole grains, vegetables
Lutein – Green yellow foods like corn, spinach, kale, collards, pumpkin, eggs, carrots, chile peppers
Lycopene – Red pink foods like tomatoes, pink grapefruit, watermelon, papaya
Anthocyanins – Purple foods like eggplant, grapes, berries, red cabbage, concord grape juice
Beta-carotene – Pumpkin, mangoes, apricots, carrots, spinach, parsley, chile peppers
Catechins – Red wine, tea, blueberries, kiwi, cacao
Copper – seafood, lean meat, milk, nuts
Cryptoxanthin – Orange foods like pumpkin, mangoes, oranges, pineapple, peaches, corn
Manganese – Seafood, lean meat, milk, nuts
Selenium – Seafood, lean meat, whole grains
Vitamin A – Liver, sweet potatoes, carrots, milk, egg yolks, broccoli, apricots
Zinc – Seafood, lean meat, milk, nuts

Conclusion

Remember, lack of antioxidants causes oxidative stress that leads to the beginning of chronic diseases including cancer, cardiovascular disease, diabetes, and neurodegenerative diseases.
Always be gentle with yourself when you choose diet and lifestyle change for healthy living.
No one is perfect in this world, everybody is learning progress about what our body needs and what it doesn’t.
When I started drinking green tea and black pepper-turmeric water regularly, my symptoms gradually disappeared.
This isn’t about eating everything exactly the right way and right manner all the time.
The secret is habit formation, small changes in the food habit and lifestyle can make a big impact on our health.
Always look for varieties of plant based foods like fruits, vegetables, whole grains, various nuts, various teas and coffee, various herbs and spices, dark chocolate and fermented foods.
Don’t forget to fine-tune and observe your body, learn from the body, it always tells you something new.
We have to aim for progress, not for perfection when it comes to eating the right food at the right time.
I know it’s still hard but just be patient with yourself as you try and learn what is best for your body.

But always remember, Harvard professor and author of “In Defense of FoodMichael Pollan’s famous food rule: “Eat food. Not too much. Mostly plants.”

Yam Timsina, PhD, writes primarily on health basics, scientific progress, social upliftment, and value creation.

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Why can’t you say ‘no’ at least a few times?

Bob is one of my trusted friends.
We became friends when he was doing MBA at Wharton School and I was a postdoc in UPenn.
We chatted last weekend on the phone and I came to know he was suffering from a long illness.
I am compelled to write this piece of content based on two conversations that I had with him, one last weekend and the second conversation almost a year ago.
I wish my friend a speedy recovery.
I remembered our conversation from almost a year ago which was somehow like this.

“Bob, you are a very good investment officer, you’ve created and delivered tons of value for the society,” I said.
“But sometimes I cry and sometimes I scream, and I feel pain and headache when I go home in the evening,” Bob said.
I asked “do you have any idea, why”?
He said, “I have no idea but I become drained and overwhelmed. I don’t have time to heal and relax, my relationship and health both are deteriorating.”
“Bob, everybody has limits in life, you are exceptional in your area of expertise, investment and banking, it doesn’t mean you can serve any number of clients in a day including your private networking session in the evening, and I know, they all like and love you and need you.
It’s not that you can serve more clients because they like you, your body which is your engine also needs self-care, good fuel as a diet, quality rest and sleep, and nurturing family relationships.
My friend, you have one body to work on in this life so you must learn how to say ‘no’ to at least a few things so that you can optimize your life and health for the long run,” I added.

It’s not only Bob’s problem, we all want to be liked by everyone, every family member, every friend, every relative, every coworker, and every community member.
This is the natural human psyche.
But at one point when we introspect our life we realize that it is absolutely not possible to be liked by everyone.
In the progression of life, we come across many things which are affected by not being little different than just being nice.

Being nice all the time is fool’s errand

Usually being nice to everyone and being liked by them is not our choice, it’s not going to solve our life’s purpose and meaning.
We must be strong first before making others strong so that flight attendants always say put on your mask first before helping others.
Being nice to everybody always basically becomes a recurring tool to lie to yourself.
It should feel energizing, empowering, creative, but if it feels exhausting and unfulfilling, then we have to stop being nice to everyone.
So relying on saying ‘yes’ to everyone and everything is a fool’s errand.

When we say ‘yes’ to everyone, we stop being our authentic selves and start to pretend to be someone which we are not, and that’s not going to serve us as we work to step out into different roles in life.
Saying ‘yes’ to everyone and everything might be ‘no’ for our physical and mental space or recreation and relaxation time.
That could also be ‘no’ for self education or self healing time or community or household contribution.
This could impact negatively on essential things like health, longevity, and prosperity depending on our choice and calling.
Remember, saying ‘no’ from our mouth is a complete sentence, it’s not a word.
But to do this we need practice and it demands a little bit of extra work.
It doesn’t come naturally, so we have to practice for it by starting with small things.
The bottom line is: If we move in the path that we want to be liked by everyone, we, most of the time, make bad decisions and remain unhappy.

Ultimately, these bad decisions drain time and energy every minute, pile up mental space, and promote nonsense that doesn’t matter to us anymore.
Most importantly, it ignores the essence of our life’s purpose which are basically, who we are and what we want.

Nothing happens until we decide when and how to say ‘no’ to at least a few things, we have to make a habit and just watch how our life revolves around and moves forward.

One lesson I learned is we have to set boundaries to say ‘no’.
Boundaries aren’t about saying ‘no’ to my friends, family members and coworkers.
Boundaries are about saying ‘yes’ to myself.

All we need is an enforced boundary to protect our health, time, joy, peace, and fulfillment.
Just be clear and mindful, it’s our job to protect us mentally and physically, nobody else’s.
Boundaries are to serve our purpose and goal, not to hurt other people around us.

The habit of saying ‘no’ comes with an alternative mindset

One way to associate with the habit of ‘no’ is to make it a ritual by associating with the right people as per our life’s goals and desires.
This association teaches us to prioritize the important stuff and let go of many others.
At one point in my life, I always hung out with wrong people who were not strong enough to make good decisions about health and longevity.
They were always tired and lethargic by hustling and running all day, no proper diet, no quality sleep, no exercise, no mediation.
And everytime I used to say ‘yes’ to these people, I was also draining myself in my private life.
So, this is one of my own personal experiences.
We have to find a group of people who challenge and inspire us, we have to spend time with quality people, and it will change our thinking.
The habit of saying ‘no’ comes with an alternative mindset and inspiring people’s association helps to cultivate this mindset.

Research says that the people we habitually associate with determine as much as 95 percent of our success or failure in life.
Upgrading our association with quality people is about making choices that make us feel amazing and fulfilling.
Recalling Jim Rohn’s statement, “we are the average of the five people we spend the most time with.”
Remember, no one ever reached Mount Everest alone, there is always a squad to accomplish a goal.

Ronald Burt, a professor at the University of Chicago’s Booth School of business says, “most successful people are labeled as “brokers”, they move between different networks, pass information around and build bridges between groups.
We must be this kind of brokers to create and deliver values in the society.
From my own research, these people say ‘no’ 99 percent of the time and say ‘yes’ only one percent of the time.
Once they say ‘yes’ in anything, they always live with that decision.
Keep in mind, always ‘yes’ to everyone and everything robs our dreams.

Warren Buffett and Seth Godin on ‘no’ advice

Warren Buffett, one of the most successful investors of all time, says, “the key to success is to say ‘no’ to almost everything. The difference between successful people and really successful people is that really successful people say ‘no’ to almost everything.”

By making a habit of saying ‘no’ take our productivity actually up rather than down.
More mental space will be created by saying ‘no’ to many things.
What do we do with our new mental space?
It’s up to us how to use this free mental space.
We may not know immediately because dot connections in the mental space haven’t been discovered yet and real pictures don’t exist yet but eventually we grow neural connections and discover why we said ‘no’.
For example, if you would have asked anybody in 1990 about Facebook and Google websites, mobile applications, data analytics, and online merchandising, what would those people say?
They would say, “ this guy is sick, doesn’t know what he is talking about.
Facebook and Google are the result of new mental space and new neural connections by saying ‘no’ to many things by Mark Zuckerberg, Larry Page, and Sergey Brin.

By saying ‘no’ to many and ‘yes’ to few invites new neural connections that bring creativity and fulfillment.
Creativity and fulfillment involves breaking out of established patterns in order to look at things in different ways.
So to do this we must practice ‘no’ to many things.
We make habits gradually and build life on it and act on the basis of how we perceive the world.
Just skip your regular 30 minutes of mundane running for five days and try meditation, you will know what your body is looking for.
We start to see the world and our life as they are at the moment, not as they were and they will be.
Saying ‘no’ requires us to be present and gives us a fresh, positive perspective of the world.

Seth Godin, an author and prolific innovator says, “just saying ‘yes’ because you can’t bear the short-term pain of saying ‘no’ is not going to help you do the work.”
By the way, his book ‘The Dip’ has had a huge influence on me.
This book is mainly about quitting and focus.
Focusing our energy and our reserves on something we can be proud of and put our name on without using the sentence “I can’t” is an invaluable lesson.

Conclusion

The more we invest our ‘yes’ into mundane things, the more rigid our life becomes and the more sufferings we invite.
So please try to stop living always on auto-pilot, learn to say ‘no’ at least a few times and ‘yes’ to quality things that bring a healthy and joyous life with purpose.

Yam Timsina, PhD, writes primarily on health basics, scientific progress, social upliftment, and value creation.

Disclaimer: “Please note that some links in this post are affiliate links, which means I may receive a small commission if you make a purchase through them, at no extra cost to you.” 

How much scientific research is linked to what to eat to beat cancer?

We all want to become rich, but my meaning of rich is different here, rich, of course, financially, but rich also in time, energy, peace, power, and joy.
The only way to achieve this means we must be healthy.
One of the most fundamental things in life is our basic day to day lifestyle which has a profound impact on our quality of life, our healthspan, and our lifespan.
Our choices, especially, nutrition, exercise, sleep, and mindset are keys to optimize our health.
These lifestyle choices are entirely in our hands, it’s all up to us what and how to perform.
For example, moderate exercise can halve our risk of dying from heart disease.
Research indicates that careful dietary decisions can reduce our risk of death from any cause by 36% while poor diets can increase our risk of death by 67%.
Another finding from research is that simply walking 20 to 30 minutes everyday can avoid the risk of dying from a heart attack in half because exercise increases the blood flow to our brain, and improves our cognitive function as well.
One of the major lifestyle changes is dietary and nutrition habits.
Dietary decisions are most neglected and difficult to adopt in daily practice but are essential for our disease free life.

Dr. Dean Ornish, author of “UnDo It” and a clinical professor of Medicine at the University of California San Francisco says, “Think about it: Heart disease and diabetes, which account for more deaths in the U.S. and worldwide than everything else combined, are completely preventable by making comprehensive lifestyle changes. Without drugs or surgery.”

Cancer beating foods

Very few people know the secrets of cruciferous vegetables like broccoli, cauliflower, kale, and brussels sprouts.
There are many factors but one most important is that they contain sulforaphane, a compound that reduces inflammation and can even slow the growth of tumors in our body.
Sulforaphane is cancer protective because it reuses antioxidants and detoxification enzymes that guard against the disease.
Sulforaphane not only inhibits tumor growth but also regulates hundreds of genes.

The broccoli sprout is a superfood that contains high levels of glucoraphanin, a precursor to the cancer busting phytochemical sulforaphane, one of the most powerful food derived molecules.
In fact, broccoli sprouts are up to fifty times more potent than broccoli alone.
Research on sulforaphane shows that 80% of the phytochemical we take goes into our body’s cells.

Here are some foods that are so good for our body that they influence more than one defense system.

Zucchini flowers contain a natural bioactive called spinasterol that protects DNA against mutations, aids immunity, and kills breast and ovarian cancer cells.
They also contain a good amount of vitamins A , C, E and K and provide important minerals like magnesium, zinc, and calcium.

Another food is persimmon leaves that could effectively inhibit liver tumor growth via enhancement of the immune function, and it displayed the potential to be a safe and effective anticancer and functional immune-enhancing agent.
Persimmons also have carotenoids, flavonoids, and vitamin E, all of which are potent antioxidants and anti inflammation in the body.
Flavonoids extracts from persimmons kill colon and prostate cancer cells.

Wasabi is widely used as a food spice in Asian countries and it has effects on detoxification, anti-inflammation, and the induction of cancer cell apoptosis.
It has anticancer activities and extracts prepared from fresh wasabi rhizomes kill liver cancer cells.
Extracts from fresh wasabi also kill breast and colon cancer cells.

Bitter melon is a tropical and subtropical vine of the family Cucurbitaceae and has promising anticancer effects on breast, ovarian, and cervical cancer cells.
Bioactives from bitter melon kill colon and breast cancer cells, lower cholesterol, and improve blood sugar levels in diabetes.

Bottarga is best eaten as a condiment food and has cancer-fighting properties.
It is rich in anti-angiogenic omega-3 fatty acids, specifically EPA and DHA, which are preserved even after long-term storage.
Extracts from it also kill colon cancer cells.

Squid ink is a type of seafood.
It has anticancer and strong antioxidant properties.
Studies have found that squid ink proteins and polysaccharides may suppress the growth of breast, lung, and prostate cancer cells
It has antioxidants, antiangiogenic, stem cell protecting, and immune enhancing effects.
It protects the gut microbiome against the side effects of cancer chemotherapy.

Beer is no more only a big dose of carbohydrates, it also contains xanthohumol and isoxanthohumol, which have anti cancer effects, are antiangiogenic, and can retard the growth of fat cells.
It also reduces the risk of kidney cancer.

Research indicates that a high-calorie diet with purple potatoes leads to a reduction in levels of interleukin-6, a pro-inflammatory protein linked to promote colon cancer.
Purple potatoes are antiangiogenic and they can kill cancer stem cells.

There was a time when spicy food was considered a health hazard.
But research made us rethink about spicy food.
Eating spicy food periodically is associated with a reduced risk from cancer, heart disease, stroke, diabetes, respiratory disease, and infections.
Chille-fed microbiomes prevent inflammation and obesity.

Dr. William Li, author of “Eat to Beat Disease” says, “Eating to beat disease empowers you to help yourself and the people you care about. You can love your food to love your health.”
His TED Talk “Can we eat to starve cancer?” tells the story of what to eat to kill cancer.

Our food, inflammation and diabetes

More than 34 million Americans have diabetes, about one in ten, and approximately 90-95 percent of them have type 2 diabetes.
When we eat too much refined carbs like pizza, pasta, sodas, white bread, pastries, fruit juice with high fructose corn syrup, processed meat like hot dogs and sausage, french fries and fried food in general, we are adding sugar and it goes straight into our bloodstream and blood sugar spikes.
Our pancreas makes insulin to bring our blood sugar down, which is good.
But insulin also accelerates the conversion of those calories into fat.
It causes chronic inflammation and many of these mechanisms lead to chronic diseases like cancer, diabetes, and heart diseases.
Healthy fats actually stabilize our blood sugar.
The fastest way to lower insulin levels is to substitute fat for processed carbohydrates.
Some good fat-containing foods are olive oil, avocados, nuts, fatty fish, and unsweetened yogurt.
There are certain foods that fight for inflammation.
Olive oil, green leafy vegetables, brightly colored vegetables, fatty fish like wild salmon and mackerel, most fruits, nuts and seeds, and green tea are some of them.
Olive oil is high in polyphenols.
Specially nuts like almonds, cashews, chestnuts, macadamias, pecans, pine nuts, pistachios, and walnuts are very healthy.
Walnut reduces the risk of colon cancer.

Dr. David Ludwig, an endocrinologist, researcher, and professor at Harvard Medical School says, “Highly processed carbohydrates are among the lowest quality components of the food supply, accounting for the majority of diet related diseases in the United States today.”
His book “Always Hungry” is a must read for those who want to break apart every myth about weight loss, and explains why we get fat and why we are always hungry.
This book also tells a story about why we become sick and how we can heal.

Dr. Robert H. Lustig, an American pediatric endocrinologist at the University of California, San Francisco (UCSF) says, “Sugar is the elephant in the kitchen.”
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Dr. Peter Diamandis, an American marketer, engineer, physician, and entrepreneur says, “Sugar is a poison.”

Plenity is a diet related pill to aid in weight management in adults who are overweight or obese and have a body mass index (BMI) of 25-40 when combined with diet and exercise.
Gelesis is a biotech company to empower people to improve and change their diet, lifestyle and health.
FDA approved plenity for obese people having BMI 25-40.

The higher the BMI, the greater the risk of developing diabetes.
A simple blood test that measures our average blood sugar level over the past two to three months is HbA1c.
HbA1c is glycated hemoglobin and it is made when the sugar in our body sticks to our red blood cells.
Our body can’t use the sugar properly and it sticks to our blood cells and builds up in our blood. Red blood cells are generally active for around 2-3 months so that the reading is generally taken quarterly.
If you have diabetes, your HbA1c level is 6.5 or above. A cutoff of HbA1c of 6.5 percent is an indication of diabetes.

Conclusion

Please remember this, one of the best investments in life is staying in good health by adopting healthy dietary habits. There is immense value for this investment and the truth is most of us came to know the value late in life once we pass and cannot regain it.
I’m sure in the future, we will have personalized nutrition based on gut microbiome, genetics, metabolic profile, and our environment to prioritize our health on an individual level.

Yam Timsina, PhD, writes primarily on health basics, scientific progress, social upliftment, and value creation.

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